Belajaran dan Pembelajaran

Here --

Kakabell nak berkongsi untuk secebis pengalaman Kakabell over the method of membesarkan seorang anak.

Jujur --

Kakabell dibesarkan dikelilingi oleh orang dewasa --

Hidup bercampur Datuk, Nenek No. 1, Nenek No. 2 dan Nenek 4 which is nenek Kakabell, serta Makcik Pakcik --

One big family.

Late Grandpha --

He was a good man with a good power and wealth.

He managed to granted each and every single of his sons and daughter with a piece of land each, ditambah dengan hasil kebun, tanah wakaf dan any other things related with wealth. Garang, sangat garang dan terlalu garang.

Daddy --

Following his late daddy's attitude, Daddy raised us dengan stick.

Garang, bad temper, nice, dalam hati banyak taman bunga tapi sombong tak mau tunjuk, less talk but more action are taken, your main enemy (during teenage time). He care-less as he taught us to learn about life on our own. Your decision is your responsibility.

Kakabell --

Being raised by Daddy yang garang. I am anak sulung which being raised by a anak sulung with attitude as above. Rotan, hanger, getah paip, maki dan jerit pekik adalah makanan harian. 

Hasilnya? Kakabell jadi somebody rebel, stand on my feet, bad temper, snobbish, jenis i-know-who-i-am-what-i-am-doing-and-its-not-your-business-type of lady. Keras kepala, boleh move on tanpa lelaki. Indie and menjadi head of the clan bila both parents are so busy earn money for living. Yes, I am.

I don't have a parents yang oh-what-happen-to-you-sayang (sambil peluk dan usap kepala) NOT AT ALL. I am proud with my parents anyhow.

Daddy managed to raised me like a MEN.

Mummy managed to let me raised my other siblings like they live in HELL and yes, they (siblings) were hated me so much during our kiddo time.

Kakabell adalah wanita yang;

1. Boleh handle life w/out depends so much pada lelaki;

2. Jenis perempuan keras, tak pandai nak buat kerja kreatif (susun bunga / deco rumah / deco cake / baking). Lebih kepada technical;

3. Jenis hati padu kalau tak kena waktu memang semua kena smash. Kalau waktu hati luluh, hah masa itulah sifat lemah seorang perempuan keluar;

4. Jenis tak pandai nak biar orang membantu diri sebab jenis tak suka bergantung budi pada orang melainkan Kakabell yang minta bantuan tu which Kakabell akan rasa terhutang budi sampai mati.

Consequences?

Semua sifat yang lelaki mahukan pada seorang wanita tu cuma ada dalam 25% je kot dalam diri nieh dan lelaki tak begitu appreciates when we can survive w/out them.

It is not good dan Kakabell need improvise. 

Percayalah, jadilah wanita selembut-lembut wanita.

Biarkan lelaki do their ultimate task dan wanita menjadi tulang belakang mereka. CUKUP.